Practise challenging #feelings.How? 

Say​:

“Hang on a minute!”

Feelings are real but feelings aren’t #facts. Seek evidence to challengewhat may well be negative, automatic assumptions.

What are your assumptions?

What did you participate in #today and for how long?

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“Feelings will come and #feelings will #fade if we allow them to do so. How? Give your #attention to something else.” S Long

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All of us have #triggers to unwanted #behaviours. Don’t allow yourself or others to pull them.

All too often we agree with negative automatic thoughts on face value. Don’t. Challenge their #assumptions with evidence.

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“Men are disturbed not by things, but by the view which they take of them.” – Epictetus (Ancient Greece)

What’s your view?

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You have a #choice in life. You always do. You can #accept the things that happen and move on or don’t accept and remain stuck. Accept doesn’t mean agree with.

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Fighting the #feelings is futile. #Accept them; #remain there; let them #fade. They will if you don’t fight them.

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The #Thinking #Brain deals in #facts & #evidence. The #Emotional Brain deals with #emotions & #feelings. Which #brain are you using in the situation you’re facing?

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